This can be combined with a hand job for an incredibly pleasurable sex act called a "rusty trombone. This is an easy way to do it, but you can accidentally use too much water. Anyway next week i am going to be for 3 days home alone and i want to go full kinky. Second, there's a strong association between any kind of "anal sexuality" and homosexuality. Slowly insert the finger, hold it, then slowly draw the finger back.
Prostate massage involves fingering the anus as above, but in this case the finger is extended all the way to the prostate gland in order to lightly massage it.
Yes their is a way to stretch the anus and that is by slowly working up with your finger and object size. But before shoving anything like that inside, use your fingers to loosen up your butthole. Eric over a year ago. The surface of the rectum is much thinner than that of the skin, and you don't want anything to irritate it. Your sphincter must definitely be held open a little for this to work. Keep calm, clean things up, and move forward.